I greet you today and come to share some insights into mothering. Shatter misconceptions. Only love is real. Only love can carry your relationship forward and upwards. Mothering driven by unconditional and all encompassing love will prevail and allow the mothered to grow and flourish.
Acceptance is the next key. Can you see yourself in a guiding capacity instead of one of control. If the mothered being chooses to live in a manner differing to yours, understand that this is totally their choice. Simply continue to love, that is the only requirement.
Laugh and love, dance and sing. Power is in the positive.. A dash of these every day will clear the fog of fear generated in modern society. You are not expected to know everything. Admit your human qualities and find the solution together.
Cultivate the environment of gratitude. Once there is recognition of the good, the grace and the treasure in your life it allows space for more to be released. .
Go in peace. I am Saint Germaine
The light of Germaine
Further comment from Saint Germaine on motherhood
There is only one way for mothers to do all they have to do, day after day. They have to pull on all their strengths from lives before, from the Goddess energy that is inherent in every mother, no matter where they are from. Be that culturally different environment, from the cities with those false sophistications, or the calm and outwardly peaceful countryside.
It is to pull on all these energies of the Goddess energies to help you through the tough times. It is such a necessity for mothers to retain calm and their own integrity. Do whatever you need to do to stay in a good, calm place and not be pulled in by the emotions of the younger and less knowledgeable thinking. You are the driver and you have to control the vehicle of motherhood, of all the younger people under your care.
There are times when the heart will be so pained by the thoughtlessness of the younger ones in your and under your control. Breathe deeply and thank the universe for the blessings of children. Sometimes this takes more than one breath. But keep at it. You are the adult. Give it some time.
Step back and after some time a different point of view can be reached to avoid the continued heartache, it is necessary to take back control with love and devotion. These are your little souls for a short time. See into each heart and just love. In addition, judge and move on from a position of love. You need to be stronger and sometimes put your own peeves aside. It is your life work to do this.
Yes, you can hear the call of the heart. Each mother has this built in, innate sense of their children. Listen for it and answer the call immediately. It may be a physical emergency or an emergency of the heart, each as important
Go in peace. I am Saint Germaine
Being in the light of Germaine
SPIRITUAL DIRECTION
Think back on your own memories of being mothered. Keep positive and find the very best feeling that you can still draw on. Memories of long, warm hugs. a safe place to land, the smell of home cooked food. Interestingly, the smallest spark can trigger these memories.
Even for those of you who feel they have had a bad childhood can find warm memories of someone who mothered you. It is all too easy to blame all of our neurosis on our parents, on bad mothering.
Make a list of what your parents did right. Add to your list by asking those around you what their parents did right.
